In life, there are some things that are hard for us to do well, such as those of us who are not that athletic or cannot fight the twitching bug that crawls inside, saying we can never open our eyes, to try to something new. But despite all of that, we all deserve a good sportsmanship award, because without this boost of confidence we are stuck losing sleep over constructive criticism or regretting how we could’ve participated in the sport, in a stronger and smarter way. We are all human, which means we’re not perfect, but for us to reach the plateau of perfectionism in any sport, we must climb the highest mountain, just like any hiker who battles the resistance of sore muscles and the bitter cold of higher elevations.
When I came out with the idea for this blog post I was looking for ways, to not only build my own confidence, but my readers as well. I debated for weeks until I recalled a skiing trip, I made years ago with friends, in which I was awarded the “Good Sportsmanship” award. You see, I have never been athletic, participated in sports or worked out at the gym, so as you can see cross country skiing was difficult for me. I swore all the way along the trail, trying to regain my balance, but falling again. In the end while all my friends, who were more experienced or naturally inclined, I sat by the fire at the lodge, with some hot cocoa, finally relieved I didn’t have to embarrass myself again.
But a week later a friend of mine presented me with an award, a paper that read “Good Sportsmanship” nested in a picture frame. I guess I didn’t do as bad as I thought. Why? Because I tried to keep up with the others. Maybe they all felt bad at my struggle and saw there was potential in me. In the long run I realized the only sport I have been good it is writing, even though it requires no sit ups or skiing, at least I can exercise the motor sensors in my brain.
I know I still have that “Good Sportsmanship” Award, in a box in the attic, along with other awards that are somehow long forgotten, but remind even though I didn’t think I did my best, others believed I did. You see we all have our own talents and it’s important to recognize them. It is also important to realize the reason why that the activities we are fearful at succeeding at is because it has created too much of a grudge for us to handle. Yeah, skiing was hard for me, but if I never got that “Good Sportsmanship” award, I would have never realized that I am special and have always been.
Have you ever received an award that you were surprised you earned? Is there an award that you believed you deserved, but never was issued that piece of paper? I believe a lot of you would agree with me, that an award based on endurance hard to tackle, is one goal that we all struggle to get to, but in the end, we have all won the game.
Look for a poem called “Good Sportsmanship” under the “Poems/Inspirational” tab.